After last week’s challenges, I decided that we needed a big change. K has gotten into the habit of waking at about 4 or 5 and then hogging the iPad until 7, when she will often swap it for TV. I know. Over the past two weeks we noticed a big deterioration in her concentration and mood, so when I saw an article about how screens were making children moody, lazy and angry, I thought: why not?! The author suggests a four week “Fast” which is appropriate at this time of year.
After I announced the screen fast, K immediately perked up. It was amazing – she suddenly became more playful, happy and almost relieved. I’m not sure what’s going on but I won’t complain. She wouldn’t go out at all BUT we go through a whole day with zero squabbles. It was very stressful as we were waiting on the new piano arriving – which it did, with the help of three strong young men. Hooray!
Peeking inside to watch the hammers hit the metal strings.
Immediately settling down and getting on with playing. I’m glad to say her recorder teacher is right, the piano appears to come very easily so far. We hope to have it tuned very soon and a new piano teacher starting next week.
The rest of the day was mostly play but she soaked it up: we read books, played games, danced to silly songs. I think that after a week or two she might need a bit less focus but it doesn’t matter. A couple of Christmas books arrived but I managed to hide them 🙂
A tough start, all of us exhausted. She woke at 4 but both she and daddy managed without the iPad. I took over just after 7, with the aid of minimal coffee. We had a timetable with ten minute amounts of work, broken up with playing, dog walking (!), and music. In spite of the reluctance to walk, we managed to do almost all the work planned before leaving for recorder at midday. Her daily practice has moved her along and she’s now playing much more fluently. Home for lunch and more clay charm making before Get Going again. She did really well with the tennis games and her coach Lewis wants her to keep playing when the course finishes at Christmas! It made such a big impact on her confidence. A happy girl greeted daddy on his return and we all made tiny doughnuts – in clay – before bed.
An early start but no iPad or tv – just parental entertainment – mum reading the Day the Crayons Quit in a stupid voice. We played with her new Playmobil Nativity set (arrived Tuesday to huge excitement – except I thought it was an advent calendar … and then gathered up her work and drove to G&Gs. In spite of asking for a little tv at lunch time, they all got through the day (more intense than usual as there was no TV break for grandad) and she returned bright eyed and chirpy after her supper. A few new winter jumpers were tried on and then for our special time, we got out the wooden blocks and built towers etc. I discovered an old iPod which we have loaded up with Harry Potter audio books, so she can have a little down time without the screen, hooray!
And then it all gets really busy. The best thing is that the screen fast allowed us to really reconnect during a time of year when I get really stressed out and down. It lasted until the week of Christmas, so the full four weeks. Would I do it again? In a heartbeat. Will K be happy to do it again? Watch this space.